I went shopping a while back with a friend of mine and as girls we sometimes share a dressing room to save time and ask how each other looks in the things we have picked out. I have a dilemma while shopping. I have floatation devices on my chest. These cause me to wear shirts that tend to be baggy, as I don't want to bring attention to them. Even when I don't try to, I still do. My husband is scared of me running for fear I will knock myself out, and even with the best sports bra or bras, I have been known to wear two at a time to minimize pain, I still have great buoyancy in that area. It is a blessing and a curse as sometimes people don't look at my face when I talk, which can be frustrating. That and the fact a button down blouse can turn into part of a naughty school teacher outfit, or if I get the shirt too big, I can look like a lumberjack, either or in some cases with certain outfits I am screwed.
Since it is a sin to be slutty, I tend to go for the lumberjack look. My friend in the dressing room looked at me crazy, and then told me she thought I was "bigger" because I wear baggy shirts. I told her my dilemma of hoochie vs. lumberjack, and she told me to go hoochie. My husband on the other hand prefers lumberjack. Now, I have actually blogged about my boobs before in determining whether or not I should through caution to the wind and just wear what I want to wear without caring if folks think I am slutty, that is unless I really do look slutty, then in that case I should be ok. But I should be able to wear a tube top or tank with certain safety precautions right?
Not a tube top like this:
But a tube top like this:
Right now these are around the house type items, but I want to be able to wear them out in public without fear of someone thinking I am working the streets.
8 comments:
It's a shame that you can't wear what you want without people thinking you are a prostitute. I remember in school that if a girl had big breasts, she was assumed to be easy, which is stupid. The flat-chested girls were the sluttiest. I actually own a few halter tops. I have average breasts, so it's not really a problem. However the booty shorts do present a problem. Those are strictly for the house.
I say skip the lumberjack look and dress the way you want. Who cares what anyone else thinks. You know who you are. You have big boobs. Don't hide them. Show off your figure. As long as you're not naked in public, I don't see what the problem is.
4 months ago I was a 38DD, now I'm smaller due to weight loss and I don't like it. I wish my boobs were fuller again. What I'm trying to say is "ENJOY THEM." If people won't stop talking to your boobs, tell'em your eyes are in your face or wear a cute T-Shirt with a message (like: Stop Funding Foolishness or Black Women- Step Up, Speak Up). That way they learn while they stare.
Wear a really tight low cut Obama t-shirt! I've always been really conservative and wary of attracting attention so I save my more revealing outfits for when I have someone around to protect me. Like my mom or a male friend. Cause guys won't harass you if you are with another guy.
LOL that picture is funny !!!!
Ae you sure u want to wear the first boob tube? Even if u had small breasts i wuldnt recommend it...but everyone had diff taste in clothes...:-) i wuld choose to wear the second item.
No way in all hell would I wear that 1st tube top, I know my limits :)
ok, i just have to say that headline combined with that picture is pretty funny.
so... why should you look like a lumberjack ? this is how you were made, people can just live with it.
Sid, leave the lumberjack look behind! Those of us with big boobs must stand up for our rights not to be treated like sluts for our natural endowments. As long as I am covered and reasonably discreet, I wear what I like, public attitudes be damned. The only thing I pay attention to is what direction these DDs are pointing: forward is fine, down is not. Without silicone enhancement, gravity is not my friend...
Your husband has to understand there is no way to hide your endowments. They are there, deal with it. He loves you partially because of them so he has to understand that they are. I have large breasts too and my husband had to understand that himself. It is what it is. No one will think your a working girl unless you dress like one, the tube you posted is not a working girl fit. Wear it with jeans and tell everyone to kick rocks.
Oh and there is a sportsbra for you, it was on oprah just put oprah sportsbra in google you will see it. I have one and it's AWESOME and I have bigger boobs than you.
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